Dear Miss Lisa:
I have been on 2 sites, three times for months at a time. No one will talk to me. Not one phone call, no texts, nothing. What is the problem?
signed,
Frustrated Frankenstein
Dear Frank,
There could be several reasons:
1) Check to make sure your profile has pictures of your smile. Close-ups get the most attention and girls love a guy that looks happy!
2) Are you chatty when you describe yourself or boring? I know that I get bored with "loves to hunt, fish, ride my 4-wheeler, blah boring blah... I like to read that a guy says he loves children or doesn't have any children at home and says he has a lot of free time to spend with 'someone special'. Be sure to let your audience know that you like to cook or work on projects around the house, the kinds of things that women like to hear.
3) Do a lot of searches and change your criteria often. Many times you will luck out if you type in a specific word like "nurse", "bar hopper" or "motorcycle" that interest's you or that you want to have in common. Once they see that you've read their profile, they will turn around and read yours.
4) Make that first step - communicate! If you like someone else's profile, write them a quick note and tell them. Clicking "flirt" is pretty useless, a lot of women don't even read them because they are so impersonal. Also, just because that perfect girl doesn't end up in your matches doesn't mean they aren't out there, you just have to look harder!
5) If you really do look like Frankenstein, I would suggest that you have your pictures done by a professional. They can work wonders in this digital age!
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I have been on 2 sites, three times for months at a time. No one will talk to me. Not one phone call, no texts, nothing. What is the problem?
signed,
Frustrated Frankenstein
Dear Frank,
There could be several reasons:
1) Check to make sure your profile has pictures of your smile. Close-ups get the most attention and girls love a guy that looks happy!
2) Are you chatty when you describe yourself or boring? I know that I get bored with "loves to hunt, fish, ride my 4-wheeler, blah boring blah... I like to read that a guy says he loves children or doesn't have any children at home and says he has a lot of free time to spend with 'someone special'. Be sure to let your audience know that you like to cook or work on projects around the house, the kinds of things that women like to hear.
3) Do a lot of searches and change your criteria often. Many times you will luck out if you type in a specific word like "nurse", "bar hopper" or "motorcycle" that interest's you or that you want to have in common. Once they see that you've read their profile, they will turn around and read yours.
4) Make that first step - communicate! If you like someone else's profile, write them a quick note and tell them. Clicking "flirt" is pretty useless, a lot of women don't even read them because they are so impersonal. Also, just because that perfect girl doesn't end up in your matches doesn't mean they aren't out there, you just have to look harder!
5) If you really do look like Frankenstein, I would suggest that you have your pictures done by a professional. They can work wonders in this digital age!
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